How to respond when a guy says he is busy? Why did he reply after five hours of your text? Perhaps, he is really busy, distracted, in a class, at work, or out on the road driving. He could also be taking his own sweet time and trying to tell you that he has better things to do than conversing with you.
Or maybe he is playing games with you. And when he replies, promptly respond to his reply. Also, it could mean that he is not interested in you. Perhaps your guy is waiting for another girl whom he likes better and has plans to date her. But if that opportunity fails to materialize, then he will think about you. The proper response to this kind of guy is to try to make him commit. This assertive approach is the best way to get him to commit.
The correct way to respond to this kind of guy is to be straightforward. Which day will work for you? If he is really interested in you, he will choose the day that would work best for him.
However, if he is not interested, he will give another excuse so that he can get off the hook. In that case, turn your interest to another guy. There are three reasons why suddenly, the guy you have been texting with complete messages turns into an inarticulate person. He really might be too preoccupied at the moment.
Send him another message, maybe an hour or two later, and see how he will respond. If he can recover his faculties, he will send you a complete worded message. There is hope that your relationship with him will grow. However, if he still sends another one-word reply, you have to take the hint.
He is really not interested at this time. The guy you are interested in seems busy answering your messages. However, he sends you a booty-call text late at night or in the wee hours. If he sends you messages like these, he is really not interested in what you are doing right now, but he wants to know if you are willing to have sex with him. How do you respond to this joker? If you do, you are relinquishing your control to the relationship and also to yourself.
What do I do? This is when you will see him take the initiative to pursue you and eventually commit. The second part of the solution is to challenge yourself to get busy. You can fill your schedule with hobbies, friends, personal and professional goals, learning new skills, redecorating your space, etc.
Wishing you the best! The only issue we have is him canceling very last minute and him not being able to keep solid plans. Any other suggestions? Hi Sasha, if he is not committing and investing in you, it is okay to walk away and focus on yourself. Oftentimes, when a person does this, their partner receives an electroshock that makes them realize what they stand to lose. This makes them adapt their approach.
I would love to reach out to you and talk to you about my current situation. I think you would be able to help me find the path I need to take.
What can I do about it? Hi Ann, I encourage you to reach out to us for coaching so that we can ask you questions that will help us define the right action plan. To work with us, just click here! Hi Ann. There is this guy I really have feelings for fun.
He is fun to be with. We stay in different states and our communication is more on phone. I have no idea if he is interested in me or not.
Though, he calls me severally. How do I know if he is interested? Do I ask him straight up if he is interested in me? I think I am pretty shy to ask that kind of question even though, I am an outgoing person. How do I ask him if he is interested in having a relationship with me so I know whether we are in a relationship or just the flirting mode?
We have dated for reaallllyyyy long.. This is so not me. But we barely talk. Sometimes not at all, sometimes a message a day. Sometimes they send him hours away from my home town. I dont know if I should let him go or try to stick it out. What should I do? I think you should listen to him.
Spare yourself more suffering. Midnight conversations were priceless and we both enjoy it so much. Always woke up feeling fresh and loved. Eventually he started telling me not to have midnight conversation because he is worried abt my health.
So,he told me to sleep at I needed more of his time like the other days. Um whats that? I can stay busy like u say but whats the point of being in a relationship?
His actions are a lot different then his words. We had the talk so many times but not a lot has changed. We used to talk a lot everyday but now he really does a lot of things including work and studies. Though I understand him, there are times that I can feel I am the only one making an effort for our relationship to work.
I have talk to him about this but the cycle still continues. Personally i think that things happen and sometimes sure work comes into play. But in general people make time for the things that matter. Caveat is that i think work stuff does come up and understanding plays a role too. Hey, How do I ask a guy if he is interested in a relationship with me? I am sort of shy and scared to ask that kind of question. I really do love him and he calls me all the time as we live in different states. However, it always leads back to the fact that people find happiness in what they do or they find meaning in it.
People are social creatures but some of us find more pleasure in the work that we do. It could be as simple as just listening to him. Do you know his schedule? If you do, you may want to make plans instead of waiting for him to make them for you. So, if you want to be with him, you have to create clear boundaries. How often do you want to go out on dates with him? Considering his busy schedule and your need for quality time, you could find a reasonable day and time for a weekly date.
Your boundaries can also include things such as if he decides to cancel on you, he has to schedule and plan another date. This will help him understand how important this is to you, as well as make sure that you get to spend time with him. Your boundaries are there to make things easier for you both. Confront him straight up and demand that he talk to you about everything! What you do need is open communication and the willingness to work on this issue. Making your partner feel loved and creating security with words of affirmation is a must.
Rather than that, make sure that your needs are being met and you can only do that by communicating and having open conversations. There are people in this world who run gigantic companies and still make sure to show their significant other all their love and support.
Even Barack Obama had time for a happy marriage with his wife, even though he was the president of the United States! No one is too preoccupied if they truly want to be around you.
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